Tense aspects can be difficult to overcome. Lol. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. They may support you financially. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. Her Venus is in my 12th house. Yah, that 12th House synastry . The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. Thinking this would help. The 12th house has a reputation for being connected with the hidden and unseen realms that operate behind the scenes in our lives. From there on, things never became the same anymore. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second. Someone I love very deeply has his Venus and Sun and Jupiter and Mercury in my 12th house (actually, his Venus is tightly conjunct my ascendant and as I ignore his time of birth, it can fall also in my 1st house). We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. GOD-awful!! The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. We have opposite rising signs. I know exactly what you mean and boy is it hard to wrap your head around 12th house connections, there are other worldly and they leave a deep impression that is hard to shake off. I have something of a business relationship with someone. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. In the synastry between my husband and myself, my Mars and Saturn lands in his 12th house. He is the same, because even if there is nothing that ties us, in any way, we would still feel like inclined to keep communicating. He does tell me how he feels about me. We also have vertex conjuct Asc. (Waving). I started with an other guy, who is really good for me and is a good match. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. I wonder what the key is to making these unusual relationships work.. http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2480, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6930. You are using an out of date browser. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. I had a very strong, sexy, DARK, dangerous and tumoultous tete-a-tete with a Sun/Gem Moon/Sag guy which put my Venus/Sag SMACK in his 12th House! At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. SPOOKY!! Venus person and House 1 person feel a. more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. I FEEL like he's controlling his emotions for some reason unknown to me. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". Hi, Elsa!! i dont know what we were meant to learn from each other but i admire them both.with both of these people , we understood each other really well and there was a connection. He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. Either come correct or go away. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. He told me he loved me so many times and then took it back, and he told me there are things he needs to work through. Hi,this is illuminating reading for me :)Recently one man has very special influence on me and his Sun, Mars, Moon and Mercury (although Mercury is very close to my Asc) fall in my 12th house.He just gets me like no one does, or ever did. If his actions speak (this would be something your pick up on intuitively) that he loves you, but his words dont. The element of secrecy makes their relationship intense and glamorous. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. this was all chinese for him but for me it was the confirmation Of I had felled. He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! I really like the Leo energy. You are using an out of date browser. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! when i came back there was this weird thing between us. Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. Neptune idealizes, and makes everything much more beautiful it rules feelings of ecstacy, perfection and the feelings of soulmates but he's a tricky fella once we fall from the high, it's hard to get over.It's not usually til much later we want to slap ourselves when the Neptune fog clears and reality set's in. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. Ive cut our contact channels. Venus Synastry in the Houses PATH-STROLOGY Utilizing Astrology to Find Your Path Home Natal Placements / Aspects Synastry Placements / Aspects Composite Placements / Aspects Planet: Sun Planet: Moon Planet: Mars Planet: Venus Planet: Jupiter Planet: Uranus Planet: Pluto Asteroids + Points Celebrities / The Infamous Past Life Astrology Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. More so after 15 years. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. Hi, Feeling. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. Very easy. Lot's of non-verbal communicating. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. Or they saw things in us that were not really there whether good or bad. It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES. A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. And he's had a muscle twitch problem for years. You can be very supportive and will enjoy much of your time alone together away from it all. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Uck. ouch ouch! Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? I have recently encountered a gentleman whose Gem Sun, Mercury, Tau Mars and North Node falls in my 12th. Wow! But it's OK because we love being around each other. Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! Take the love goggles off. Lol. This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. You have a tendency to fall in love with people who re not available, and . I felt I was led to believe they cared for me, and while showering me with attention, long distance no less, never told me they had feelings for someone else they were trying to avoid. No idea if I appear in his?! In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. Ive always been madly in love with him, andhe claims he isntbut his actions speak otherwise. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. For one odd reason I never completely believed him. What do you think? Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. How is in your case? The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. The moment we talked I felt like I knew him since always, and when started shring some details it was like we had the same growing up, same ambitions (my Sun is in Aries, his in Capricorn). On the second day of this happening, he told me that it was weird because he was going through the same thing because of a blood sugar problem where his blood sugar was going too low. I couldn't forget him until now. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. That said, I do know something about this. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? Now i know why. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. Hi, Heather. Thank you for any input/comments. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" He makes me breakdown so many barriers. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. it doesn't work or they don't like me? I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. Required fields are marked *. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. Also VenusianMoon, the outside person (your boyfriend?) I find your insight very helpful. And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. Hi Aida! Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. It's crazy. Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. My 12th Houser actually taught and showed me the GEMINI IN ME that I was in denial of. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. afterall i suspected him of being phony and saw a fakeness in his eyes.it's not that i have not learned from the previous lesson. For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. could you explain in detail why this weird connection happens in this 12th house? Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. This is especially true with the Moon here but other planets as well. I trust everything happens for a reason! Some are just hung up on their exes. When dealing with the spirit world, there are both positive and negative, you know good and bad people and spirits. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. It's as if nither of us are ready to let go fully. I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. ), but at the same time on his POSITIVE/GOOD TWIN sign I recognized parts of myself that were. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. His Venus and Jupiter fall in my 9th house. The North Node represents our souls goal in this l Mercury in Partners 1st house You will inspire easy communication with your partner. I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. Still, whenever I think about doing something new in my life, with anyone else I speak with confidence and gusto. In a synastry chart, this is indicative of strong affection and attraction. You need some fire. You must be open and not make assumptions. Venus in the Houses in Synastry. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. I will try to expand on it in greater detail for ya, so check back:). Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. but I CAN (4-Sag placement, counting the PF), and thus I DID. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. I just cant seem to walk away from him or shut down on him totally. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. Would he feel my NN in his 12th and if so in what way? I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. Its a 99% chance that hell hurt you, but what makes it bad is that the Mars person doesnt really know that they are. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. Me and my fianc has this. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) OH! I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. It s killing me . He told you that he is not in love with you. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. If it's a night chart, Venus is more powerful and the strongest benefic in the chart. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. His Moon squares my NN. Hi, Name Again. It lasted for a year and we functioned well in the one-on-one, but had trouble integrating it with our lives. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. Thanks for sharing your experience:) Very psychic this 12th house Synastry, you really feel connected regardless if you are together or not it's like you exist on another plane 0: Very interesting article! I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. , Hey I would like to know more about the 12th house synastry I have my bfs Venus Jupiter and I think another place landing in my 12th house but my sun sign, Mercury, and Jupiter are all in the 12th house so idk if that has a lot to do with why its so easy to connect with him because I read and obsessed over a secret relationship but its way out in the open all over social media on both side and his family knows all about me and my family knows all about him Im just so confused like yea sometimes Im thinking hes not telling me all his feelings but I feel like I know him on a deep level and then I feel like I dont like he seems too good to be true it makes me automatically not want to trust him .. hmmm. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. I made our synastry. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. Anyone else care to share? I can relate to almost all you've been saying. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. It's probably love bordering on obsession. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. I started seeing a guy whose Venus is in my 12th house as well as his Mercury in my 12th house. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. I've never experienced Venus in my 12th house until now, but yup That's what it is like. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents.

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